Think Before You Share: The Legal Risks of Posting Dating Stories Online

A Case That Highlights the Risks

Nikko D’Ambrosio, a Chicago man, has filed a lawsuit against 27 women, one man, and several social media platforms over posts in a private Facebook group titled "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" The group allows members to share experiences about people they’ve dated, often including names, photos, and personal details.

D’Ambrosio claims the posts labeled him as "clingy" and accused him of "ghosting" dates after intimate encounters. His attorneys argue these statements are defamatory and have caused reputational harm. The lawsuit also accuses the group of doxxing—sharing his personal information without consent—which is illegal under Illinois’ new Civil Liability for Doxing Act.

Seeking over $75,000 in damages, D’Ambrosio’s lawsuit also targets group administrators and platforms like Meta (Facebook), Patreon, and GoFundMe for facilitating harmful content while profiting from it.

What Is Doxxing and Why Is It Illegal?

Doxxing involves sharing someone’s personal information online without their consent. While some may see this as free speech, it can cause serious harm to those targeted.

Illinois recently enacted the Civil Liability for Doxing Act, which provides legal protection for victims whose personal information is shared without permission. Similar laws exist in states like Texas, California, and Maryland.

In D’Ambrosio’s case, his attorneys had some posts removed from the Facebook group, but they were later re-uploaded anonymously. This demonstrates how difficult it can be to stop harmful content once it spreads online.

Are Social Media Platforms Liable?

This case also raises questions about platform accountability. D’Ambrosio’s lawsuit includes platforms like Meta (Facebook), Patreon, and GoFundMe for hosting harmful content in groups like "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" His attorneys argue these companies profited from user engagement while failing to moderate defamatory posts effectively.

Additionally, group administrators are accused of using D’Ambrosio’s identity for commercial purposes through crowdfunding campaigns hosted on these platforms, further complicating the issue of liability.

What This Means for You

This case is a reminder that online posts can have real-world consequences. Sharing personal stories—even in private groups—can lead to lawsuits if they include defamatory statements or private information about others.

For those targeted by harmful online content:

• Anti-doxxing laws protect against unauthorized sharing of personal information.

• Defamation laws allow you to seek damages for false statements that harm your reputation.

  
  

If you’re involved in an online dispute—whether as a victim or defendant—consulting an experienced attorney is crucial to protecting your rights.

How We Can Help

AtMarc Trent, we specialize in defamation, privacy violations, and digital harassment cases. Whether you’ve been harmed by online posts or need guidance on protecting your reputation, our team is here to help.

We provide personalized legal solutions to address reputational damage and privacy violations caused by social media activity. If you believe your rights have been violated—or want to understand how to protect yourself—contact us today for a consultation.